
In one of my former lives, I wrote a paper that contained the then-feminist term "kin work." Kin work was seen as the work of maintaining ties within a family or set of friends, providing the connecting activities -- letters, phone calls, casseroles, and cupcakes -- that bring people together. Kin work connects people informally and gently into the essences of the worlds of other people. Kin work isn't necessarily a female activity, at least not any more (Jer is very good at it) nor is it strictly among "kin." It's really in large part what makes living worthwhile.
Now, it seems to me, blogs have become an integral part of our kin work.
Ah, you see where I'm going.

I've been under the weather (literally as well as metaphorically speaking), having an upsurge in an old tiresome medical problem. The problem is not life-threatening, and mostly requires taking time out, going to bed, reading lots of useless murder mysteries (good because the writer keeps repeating basic elements of plot) and letting the world -- and my kin work -- disappear for while. Until this year, I hadn't had a resurgence strong enough to interfere with southeastmain, but it was inevitable that this would happen at some point. And Jer has his mind on other things -- mostly editing Wikipedia, but also on maintaining house and home while I lounged in my bed of ease. And so the hiatus at southeastmain over the last week.
Now I'm upright again, and discussions are afoot about what will happen to southeastmain. We've been blogging since March 25, 2004; we have done 1496 posts, and have had 105,795 views (almost 70 per day) of the blogs. We hadn't realized that it had become part of our kinwork, but comments from Del and Sheila and Terry and Jay and Janet as well as Linda and others made us aware that we have kin across the world that the blog serves to maintain connections with.

So, we shall continue. We may move to a more friendly commenting blog site, where you don't have to prove you are a human being before being allowed to make comments. And we'll probably shift some responsibilities -- I have an unfair advantage with photos, since I can always dredge up another draft of some painting or a work in progress among the baskets of unfinished textiles. So I might be doing more of the entries, while Jer does some fewer. And he might even be talking a bit more in text, particularly during these rainy days when photography becomes more difficult.
In the meantime, the clouds (metaphorically speaking) seem to be parting, good friends keep coming back, and small visions and revisions occur. We'll be around tomorrow.
-- June
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